TAMMY KAY CHOW
Somatic Attachment Facilitator
SOMATIC ATTACHMENT THERAPY
1:1 Sessions:
In-Person in Santa Fe, NM
Online Worldwide
Hi! I'm Tammy.
I'm a Somatic Experiencing and Dynamic Attachment Repatterning (DARe) practitioner, offering in-person 1:1 sessions in Santa Fe and online worldwide.
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I help people who are tired of watching themselves repeat the same relational patterns in dating, friendships, and with family and are ready to heal it where it actually lives — in the body, nervous system, and attachment system. Instead of just talking about these patterns, we go into the body itself to address the root cause, working with the trauma stored in the tissues and organs that keeps you locked in those loops.
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Together, we will identify and write out the exact unconscious contracts you made growing up to belong and survive, what they cost you, and work through the layers needed to release them and create space for healthier relational patterns to emerge.
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I especially love working with people healing the mother wound, breaking free from ancestral trauma, and those who've spent years abandoning themselves to keep others comfortable, often without realizing it.
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I came to this work through my own healing journey, and that lives at the heart of everything I offer.
What We Work On:
Repeating relational patterns
Stored trauma in the body & nervous system
Unconscious childhood contracts
The mother wound & ancestral trauma
Self-abandonment & people-pleasing
Creating space for healthier patterns
My Integrated Approach...
​​​​Somatic Experiencing® (SE)
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Somatic Experiencing works directly with the nervous system to gently resolve trauma stored in the body. Rather than re-living the past, we track sensation, regulation, and safety in the present moment — allowing survival energy to release at a pace your system can trust. This supports emotional regulation, embodiment, and a felt sense of safety within yourself and in relationship.
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Dynamic Attachment Repatterning Experience (DARe)
DARe supports the repair of early attachment wounds by creating new experiences of attunement, consistency, and connection. Through relational presence and nervous-system-informed practices, younger parts of you receive what was missing — allowing insecure attachment patterns to soften and secure attachment to become embodied, not just understood.
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Radical Aliveness
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Radical Aliveness is a relational and expressive practice that welcomes emotional truth, conflict, intensity, and aliveness in real time. It supports the healthy expression of anger, vulnerability, desire, and grief within a grounded, attuned container — helping you reclaim life force and relate with greater authenticity, dignity, and presence.
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Family Constellations
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Family Constellations is a systemic healing approach that reveals how ancestral patterns, unseen loyalties, and intergenerational trauma shape present-day relationships, emotions, and life direction. This work supports the release of inherited burdens and the restoration of belonging within your lineage — often opening access to ancestral guidance, support, and a deeper sense of purpose.
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Body Temple: Ritual Theater & Tantric Lineage
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Body Temple is an embodied, devotional practice rooted in Bhakti yoga and expressed through ritual theater and tantric work. Your life becomes the art and your body the instrument, offering sensation, emotion, desire, and prayer as acts of devotion. Through movement, voice, breath, sound, and symbolic action, grief, rage, pleasure, and creativity are welcomed as pathways back to love. Through authentic expression, your lived experience is restored as a source of meaning, aliveness, and power.